Showing posts with label Adulthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adulthood. Show all posts

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Becoming Adults


In the evolution from childhood to adulthood, there are many different ways that society views the bridge from one stage of development to the next. For some, a sign of adulthood is a getting a tattoo, for others a bat mitzvah, and for others, receiving their driver’s license or going through puberty or loosing their virginity. However, even those things, when analyzed, can in actuality prove our immaturity just as much as it proves our maturity. Though “adult” is defined on Dictionary.com as “a person who is fully grown or developed or of age,” it is more than a physical change for one to truly claim the title of adult. As young souls in the world, we want to grow up so that we can achieve adulthood; but it is only when we have the ability to think critically that we can truly claim that title. Aldous Huxley (1958), Neil Postman (1984), Elouise Bell(1991), and Elder David A. Bednar (2008) will assist us as we explore the outcomes of thinking critically can have on us. Without the ability to think critically, we can, even unknowingly, allow ourselves to be pulled into potentially dangerous situations we would otherwise avoid.
Aldous Huxley (1958), who graduated from Oxford with a degree in English literature and is also the author of the controversial book Brave New World (1932), gave a speech entitled “Propaganda under a Dictatorship” wherein he mentions some of these dangers. Huxley summarizes the thoughts of that once greatly influential, but evil, man Hitler, who had the ability to move the masses, those of whom he viewed as “subhuman” or underdeveloped. Huxley writes:
Assembled in a crowd, people lose their powers of reasoning and their capacity for moral choice. Their suggestibility is increased to the point where they cease to have any judgment or will of their own. They become very excitable, they lose all sense of individual or collective responsibility, they are subject to sudden accesses of rage, enthusiasm and panic. In a word, a man in a crowd behaves as though he had swallowed a large dose of some powerful intoxicant. He is a victim of what I have called “herd-poisoning.” (p. 165)
 If we are unable to think for ourselves in a crowd, or otherwise, we become subject to the wills of others, regardless of right or wrong; while we, being undecided and unable to think for ourselves, have not yet determined what that is. As our minds mature with experience and knowledge we can decipher between those rights and wrongs. There are, however, more subtle and friendly ways of achieving mass obedience. This is mostly achieved through things that we enjoy, for example a favorite TV show, book, or artist.
Neil Postman (1994), chairman of the Department of Culture and Communication at NYU, wrote a speech entitled “Amusing Ourselves to Death,” wherein he recognizes those other dangers resulting from the absence of thinking critically. He explains:
In America, Orwell’s prophecies are of small relevance but Huxley’s are well underway toward being realized. I speak to you of America not only because I know its situation better than any other but also because America is engaged in the world’s most ambitious experiment to accommodate itself to the technological distractions made possible by the electric plug. This is an experiment that began slowly and modestly in the mid-nineteenth century with the invention of the telegraph, and has now, in the latter half of the twentieth, reached a perverse maturity in America’s consuming love affair with television. As nowhere else in the world, Americans have moved far and fast in bringing to a close the age of the slow-moving printed word, and have granted to television sovereignty over all of their institutions. By ushering in the age of television, America has given the world the clearest available glimpse of the Huxleyan future, 2000. (p. 382)
America is one of few the countries that subsist in danger of living out the horrors described in Huxley’s Brave New World. Most of the world lives in fear of dictators who will have their way regardless of the well-being of the people. America is one of the few that uses our so-called well-being as a tool to pacify us into submission. Regardless of what country we come from, we must be aware that conformity can come upon us without recognition. Unless we are prepared for it when it tries to sneak in, we could fall into the decisions others have made for us.
We need to carefully decide how we can avoid these atrocities. Elouise Bell (1994), a retired English professor who has taught at several different universities, including BYU, and authored several books, explains how in her essay “The Better for my Foes: The role of Opposition”. She quotes the clown from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night when he speaks to the Duke. ‘“Truly the better for my foes and the worse for my friends. . .”’ the clown further explains ‘“Marry, sir, they praise me and make an ass of me. Now my foes tell me plainly I am an ass, so that by my foes, sir, I may profit in the knowledge of myself, and by my friends I am abused. . .”’ (p. 37). This essay explains the value that our enemies can be to us. Friends, if only in the intent of being nice and behaving as they should, can truly do us a disservice. We are blinded by the compliments that we receive from them, and it inhibits our progress in finding truth. “Yet many of us today think of ourselves as enlightened because we are willing to ‘let others have their say’ without seriously considering their say” (Bell, 1994, p.39). Even this attitude inhibits us from truth; we must be willing to analyze ourselves, which builds confidence in our own understanding. Pride in a critical situation can only harm us.
 Furthermore, we can find what is true through the counsel of Elder David A. Bednar, who graduated from BYU with an MA in organizational communication with a PhD in organizational behavior from Purdue University. He is now one of the Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. In his talk entitled “Learning to Love Learning,” Elder Bednar reminds us that intelligence is the glory of God, and that “the overreaching purpose of Heavenly Father’s great plan of happiness is to provide His spirit children with opportunities to learn” (p. 32). We must not forget that in the search for truth, Heavenly Father and His plan must always be a steadying force. When in doubt, ask Him in faith, for attaining Godhood is the ultimate level of knowledge. Elder Bednar further explains that “learning to love learning is vital to our ongoing spiritual and personal development” (p. 33). Development is the key word; becoming an adult requires learning that which is true and loving it; we can discover those truths through critical thinking as well as revelation. But even in the search for revelation, study is often a required step. There will always be those who don’t have that thirst for knowledge and truth, and how sad for them that they might never be enlightened. A thirst for knowledge comes with mental maturity.
Avoiding the dangers of conformity through critical thinking proves that we have matured beyond the point of herd-ship (without our consent). As adults, we must learn to see the world as it is, not how society tells us it is. We must learn to value our own opinions as well as appreciate others. When we forget our convictions to correct principles, we become subject to those who would herd us into conformity. As adults, it is our responsibility to be non-conformists; in other words, it is our duty to decide for ourselves, through careful study, what we are going to believe or not, and to not allow the emotional pressures of others to sway our opinions.





References
Bednar, D.A. (2010) Learning to love learning. In W. Brugger, D. Hammond, M. K. Hartvigsen, A. Papworth, & R. Seamons (Eds.), The Way of Wisdom (2011). Rexburg, ID: BYU-Idaho. Retrieved May 21, 2012, from http://ilearn.byui.edu.
Bell, E. (1991). The better for my foes: the role of opposition. In W. Brugger, D. Hammond, M. K. Hartvigsen, A. Papworth, & R. Seamons (Eds.), The Way of Wisdom (2011). Rexburg, ID: BYU-Idaho. Retrieved May 13, 2012, from http://ilearn.byui.edu.
Huxley A. (1958). Propaganda under a dictatorship, In W. Brugger, D. Hammond, M. K. Hartvigsen, A. Papworth, & R. Seamons (Eds.), The Way of Wisdom (2011). Rexburg, ID: BYU-Idaho. Retrieved May 13, 2012, from http://ilearn.byui.edu
Postman, N. (1984). Amusing ourselves to death. In W. Brugger, D. Hammond, M.K. Hartvigsen, A. Papworth, & R. Seamons (Eds.), The Way of Wisdom (2011). Rexburg, ID: BYU-Idaho. Retrieved May 13, 2012, from http://ilearn.byui.edu.